Wednesday, April 29, 2009

The Beginning of the Unplanned Adventure

To catch those of you up who may just be learning of this "unplanned adventure," Jeff found out that he has a brain tumor on Thursday, April 16th. The tumor is located below the cerebellum, close to the brain stem, and is about 6 cm by 4 cm. After meeting with a neurologist in Omaha, we were informed that the tumor is operable, but that the removal will require a talented surgeon, due to its close location to the spine and brain stem. Jeff and I promptly decided that Mayo was our hospital of choice (thanks to Pat and his incredible family,) and plans were quickly made. The surgeons at Mayo asked Jeff to have an additional MRI test performed on his spine as well as meet with the neurological oncologist and the neurological surgeon prior to surgery. Jeff decided to travel to Minnesota with his dad, while I stayed home to deal with work and the kids' hectic schedules.

Jeff and his dad, Rich, traveled to Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota on Monday, April 27th. Upon arrival, Jeff spent two hours having a comprehensive MRI done on his spine. He later met with the neurological oncologist to discuss the possibility of needing further treatment after the tumor has been removed. Jeff spent over an hour with the specialist and walked out feeling better about the situation than when he walked in. The doctor showed Jeff angles of the tumor that he had not yet seen and explained that the tumor is not as close to the brain stem as we had once feared. He also felt that because of the tumor's slow growth (which we were told could have been growing for over 8 years!) that no treatment should be needed after its removal (of course we won't be sure of this until the tumor is actually removed.)

Jeff had his pre-op examination on Tuesday morning prior to meeting with the surgeon who would be actually removing the tumor. Again, Jeff and Rich were in awe of the the professionalism displayed by the surgeon and the staff. The surgeon walked Jeff step by step through the procedure to be performed, which in its entirety could last up to 8 hours (I won't go into detail here, but let's just say, it's not pretty.) Jeff is expected to be in the hospital for up to a week following the surgery and will then be out of work on short term disability for up to 3 months. He will be restricted from lifting anything over 10 pounds (that means he won't be holding the dogs! LOL!) The doctor feels that a full recovery is likely with only a slight chance of side effects that could include numbness, tingling, etc.

So now, we are waiting until Monday, May 4th to take off for Minnesota. During the next few days we will pay bills, write sub plans and detailed plans for grandparents to follow. Thanks so much to ALL of you for your support and prayers. We don't know what we would have done without you during the past several STRESSFUL weeks. Please Check this blog for updates in the near future and feel free to leave comments (I think we will have LOTS of time to read them in the hospital!) Please keep Jeff in your thoughts and prayers on Tuesday, May 5th.

Lots of Love,
Kim

PS Thanks to my friend, Cooper, for helping me to set this up! :)

40 comments:

  1. Sounds like you got some great news from the Mayo Clinic. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Good Luck!!!!!

    What a great space to find out what's going on and to leave comments. Let us know what we can do to help too!
    Love ya,
    Cyndi

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  2. Yes, indeed, blogs are great for just this sort of journey. I will be thinking of you on Tuesday. I am so glad that the initial reports are so positive. Keep your chin up, Kim! -Cathie

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  3. the blog is a great idea. You will have so many people that will have you both on there minds around the clock. As suspected, you will be blown away by the treatment you will get at Mayo, it truly is an amazing and unique hospital.
    God Bless you on your upcoming adventure.
    Hugs, prayers, and good wishes,
    Pam

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  4. Hey guys! I am so glad that the news and the prognosis are so positive. I appreciate the opportunity to be a part of this blog. We had some friends a few years ago who were going through a very rough time (he passed out for no reason, hit his head, was in a coma for two months, and is doing extremely well now), and it was so good to KNOW what was going on instead of speculating.

    Just as we did with the friend mentioned above, the prayers pulled him through. I know that all the prayers that are being sent up on your behalf will get you all through this with flying colors.

    If you need ANYTHING, please let me know. When I'm at school, I'm just a few short blocks from your house, so I can check on things, water the plants, etc. You just have to let me know.

    Prayers and thoughts are coming your way. Take care and keep those positive thoughts going! Great blog, by the way, Kim!!

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  5. Remember how loved you and Jeff are! We are keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers, and can't wait to marvel at the stories of Jeff's rapid recovery. Go in peace and confidence!
    ~ Jane

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  6. Jeff and Kim,

    You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
    Sounds like Mayo has got you covered. Smart move! There a top shop! I hope you have only good suprises from now on! I thought you only fished with dynamite! Don't be suprised, if you get some old unexpected visitors.

    Good luck and good hunting,
    Trotter

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  7. I'm real encouraged by Jeff's report, Kim. Keep Jen, Jamie, and me in mind if the kids need anything while you're gone. Leave my phone number for Jeff's folks.

    All our love!
    Peg

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  8. I am keeping Jeff's and your families' journey in my prayers and sending you all POSITIVE energy. Much love and peace, Maria

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  9. Kim & Jeff,
    So glad to know you heard good news at Mayo! We'll be anxious to hear how well surgery went and that you're on the road to recovery! You are in our prayers and on the prayer chain at church--so you have lots of prayers carrying you through. Believe in miracles--they happen every day!
    Pam, John, Matt & Kristen

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  10. Kim,
    Pam Sullivan forwarded this blog on to me. You know how much we all love you. I will put you and your family on our prayer chain at church and will tell others to do the same. You are a beautiful, strong person, but don't be afraid to lean on others. We all need support at one time or another. I'm so glad Jeff is at Mayo. From what I've heard, he will receive the best possible care. Sounds like they have it totally under control.
    Love ya,
    Cindy Butzke

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  11. Kim and Jeff,
    Just wanted you to know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers. Don't hesitate to call if there is anything that we can do for you here in Lincoln.
    Leslie, Mark, Caitlin, and Erin Lukin

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  12. Kim and Jeff, Maddie and Cole

    I'm so happy to hear the prognosis is super positive, and that you will be spending a week or so with us in MN. We ordered some sunshine for your trip, not to mention some decent Twins games to watch in the evenings. Andy wants to know that he is available to meet up in Rochester for lunch or dinner any day or to swing by the clinic and drool on Jeff (teething) with the Mischnicks.

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  13. Jeff,
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We're very happy to hear that the prognosis is good. Take care and we'll talk when you get back.

    Mick, Jana, Grady and Will McGuire

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  14. Your report certainly is optimistic and with good reason. Here's hoping all goes according to plan and that Jeff beats the record for recovery.

    Please continue this blog. It's a great idea.
    Shirley

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  15. Jeff:
    Sounds like things are going smoothly so far. We will continue to pray for you and also for the doctors and for Kim and the kids. You have a good attitude and that can amount to so much. Keep good thoughts!!
    We love you!!!
    Patty, Roland, Katie and Ryan

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  16. Kim and Jeff,
    We are so glad to hear the news is encouraging at Mayo. We will keep you guys in our prayers. God is the great physician.
    Love,
    Michelle and John Kroeker

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  17. Kim and Jeff....
    Just shocked to find out this news today! Please know that you all will be in our prayers. The news from Mayo sounds encouraging! Travel safe.

    Love and hugs to you all.
    Kim

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  18. Dear Kim,
    Jeff, you and all your family are in the thoughts and prayers of your Hill family. We will be following Jeff's progress and appreciate your blog. This latest news sounds so positive and encouraging. I know everything will work for the best!!
    Kay

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  19. Jeff and Kim,
    We just found out about Jeff, we are so glad to hear there is good news!
    Things like this really make us stop and think how precious our time is and how blessed we are to have our family and health.
    Our prayers are with all of you!
    Mike & Jodi

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  20. I just hope things go ok and turn out cool after the sergery! C ya, ---

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  21. Just checked out the blog and I bet I know that smiling Cooper who helped you out! Love the pictures except I couldn't find the one with Kim and Jeff???!!!!???? It was so encouraging to read the positive news from the doctors and may the 8 hrs end up being half of that! We'll be glued to the blog for updates....huge bundle of hugs, love and prayers
    marie

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  22. Stay strong Kim and Jeff! You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Don't hesitate to let us know if you need anything - especially any technology help from Coop! : )
    Love ya,
    Lesa and Cooper

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  23. Kim and Jeff, my family has battled cancer several times. Not just because I teach French, but because I support Cancer survivors, LIVE STRONG!! My thoughts and prayers will be with you both!
    Jan

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  24. Jeff and Kim:

    Hope your travel today is safe-we are with you every mile-many prayers following you every step the next few days-use them all for strength. Jeff, we all look forward to you returning home (and your new sexy haircut :-) )

    The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. Psalm 18:2

    Thanks for keeping us all posted and it goes without saying if you need anything . . . .

    Love You
    Lynn, Tony, Bri and Ash

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  25. Josh 1:9 "Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go."
    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Jeff.
    Keep the faith.
    Polly

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  26. John & Tina HoranMay 4, 2009 at 1:15 PM

    Jeff & Kim,

    We are praying for your surgery & fast recovery. Please, let us know if we can help in any way. We'd be glad to help with kids, etc..

    John & Tina

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  27. Hi My family and I just want to tell you you are in our hearts :) I just like smiling Lol so bye!! :-)

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  28. Jeff, Kim and family are in our prayers and we are hopeful for a successful surgery and quick recovery. We send positive thoughts!

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  29. Jeff and Kim:
    Hope you had a good trip. I think of you both often today. It was so good to see you yesterday, Jeff. You look so good. You will be fine, like you said, you have to be!!!!! Ryan said a prayer for you tonight. God be with you and with the doctors. Kim, I will think of you while you are waiting. Can't wait to read that everything went well.
    Love you both very much!!!!
    Patty and Roland

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  30. You are all in our thoughts and prayers today. How nice it will be to have that thing OUT!
    Love and hugs from The Olsons

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  31. Kim....
    I will be praying for you and Jeff all day today while he is in surgery. God will provide you peace and strength.

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  32. Just wanted you to know we are all thinking of you guys. I'm so glad you are finally getting this behind you - it's been a long haul! I'll try and keep Nana and Papa informed. Jeff is in the best hands!

    Love,
    Peg

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  33. We are thinking of you, hope to see u soon

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  34. Kim,
    Good thoughts are being sent from your Math Class in Lincoln, Nebraska. We are ALL thinking of you and Jeff this morning.
    Your students say "movin on over pop it up!"j.k.

    If you get this Math problem right you get 5 tickets!
    What is the smallest number of segments of equal area and shape that a rectangle can be divided into? Due tomorrow...smile...

    We miss you and hope the surgery goes fabulously!
    Smiles all around,
    Nancy & Math students

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  35. Patty and RolandMay 5, 2009 at 4:14 PM

    Kim and Jeff:
    I just finished reading about the surgery and how successful it has been. Thank God!!!!!
    We're so glad it is going well and I'm sure you're feeling about 100 pounds lighter without so much worry on your shoulders. That should be good for your diet plan Kim! :-)
    We will continue to pray for further good news and healing. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. They do work!!! Give Jeff a kiss and tell him hi!
    Love,
    Patty and Roland

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  36. Hi Kim and Jeff!

    Thanks for the texts all day Kim. it gave us a lot of peace and relief!! We are so happy for the good news,ask Jeff when he feels up to it if he remembers the suits of a deck of cards. He made a parting comment to us at volleyball the other day, he will probably know what I mean! We send all of our positive energy and our love to you!!

    Dan and Barb

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  37. That is such great news. I wish i could do more but I will pray for you both.

    Kenna Batterton

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  38. Kim:
    Wonderful news!!!!! We are so thankful to hear that he is doing okay!!!! Hang in there!
    Love you,
    Patty Hill

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  39. We'll pray for you back at home Mrs. Ridder! I'm glad Jeff is getting better! Hope to see you and Jeff soon!

    Your favorite student:)
    Evan Kobler

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